You've separated, that was hard enough. But now you need to sort out property and parenting with no idea where to start and you're terrified of losing thousands to lawyers.
What if you could finally get your property and parenting sorted without the confusion, fear, and crippling legal bills... Would that change everything?
Here's why feeling lost and overwhelmed right now is costing you more than you think
You've already done the hardest part you've separated, or you've made the decision to. That took real courage, and we see that.
But now you're facing something equally daunting: the legal maze of divorce or de facto separation in Australia. And if you're like most people going through separation right now, you're probably:
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Lying awake at night Stressing
If you'll be able to afford to fight for what's fair.
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Feeling paralyzed by legal jargon you don't understand
worried that one wrong move will cost you everything
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Watching your savings drain away on lawyer consultations
that leave you more confused than before
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Terrified you'll miss a crucial deadline or make a mistake you can't undo
especially when it comes to the kids
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Feeling like you're Stuck in limbo
While your ex controls the timeline (and maybe the joint accounts)
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SICK of the Uncertainty
just wanting it to be sorted so you can finally move on with your life.
...If that's you, then keep reading, because we can help
Most people believe these myths about getting divorced or de-facto separated:
Myth #1
"You can't do anything until you're officially divorced."
False. You can start negotiating property and parenting agreements the day after you separate. In fact, waiting until you're divorced can put you under unnecessary time pressure.
Myth #2
"If you move out, you'll lose your rights to the house."
Wrong. Where you live during separation doesn't determine your property entitlement. The court knows people separate, and you still have the same rights.
Myth#3
"Only lawyers can do this properly."
Not true. The court actively encourages people to settle outside of court. You absolutely can create your own consent orders—you just need to know how.
Myth #4
"Your income during the relationship determines the percentage split."
Nope. The court doesn't care who earned more. What matters is that you both contributed everything you had to the family. A hospital cleaner and a neurosurgeon can have equal contributions.
Myth #5
"Whatever your ex tells you is fair must be right."
This is the most dangerous myth of all. Your ex's interests are no longer aligned with yours. If they're telling you not to get legal advice, there's usually a reason and it's not in your favour.
Here's the truth that nobody talks about in Divorce:
Most people going through divorce don't have a lawyer on speed dial. They don't have unlimited funds to hand over their entire case to a legal team. And they certainly don't have the luxury of waiting years for court dates while their life stays frozen in place.
The family court system can cost on average between $50,000 to $100,000 and can take up to three years just to get basic orders in place. Even if you avoid court entirely, using lawyers for everything can still cost if you are lucky $20,000 or more.
Meanwhile, you're sitting on your playroom floor in a daze (or lying awake at 3am) trying to figure out how property settlement or custody even works, what you're entitled to, and whether you'll ever feel like yourself again.
YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THIS
✨This is stressful enough already
Picture This: It's 2am and You Can't Sleep
Your mind is racing. You're thinking about the house, the kids, the super, the car. Who gets what? What's fair? Your ex sent you another controlling text today, and you just froze. You didn't know what to say. You didn't know your rights.
You've Googled "how to get divorced in Australia" seventeen times this week. Each article uses terms you don't understand. Consent orders. Disclosure. Section 60I certificate. Contributions. Future needs.
Your friend says you need a lawyer. Your ex says you don't need a lawyer (which makes you think you definitely need one). You called a law firm, and they wanted $3,500 just to get started plus thousands more in a trust account.
You attended one consultation. You cried through most of it. You walked out with paperwork you didn't understand and a bill for $800. When you got home, you couldn't remember half of what the lawyer said.
You feel helpless. Stuck. Scared. Overwhelmed. And completely alone.
You're the peacemaker in your relationships, so part of you just wants to agree to whatever your ex suggests so this nightmare will end. But another part of you knows that's not fair. That you deserve better. That your kids deserve better.
Some days you put on that brave face for your children, your family, your coworkers. But inside? Inside you're terrified you're going to make the wrong decision and regret it for the rest of your life.
We know, because we've both been there.
But Here's What You Actually Deserve...
After everything you've been through after finding the courage to leave or dealing with being left, after all the sleepless nights, after putting everyone else first for so long you deserve to finally feel empowered and in control.
You deserve to wake up knowing exactly what your next step is. To understand the legal process well enough that you can make your own informed decisions. To negotiate with confidence instead of fear. To stop paying lawyers $600 an hour to answer basic questions you could learn yourself.
You deserve clarity confidence and the knowledge that you're not going to get taken advantage of just because you don't have a law degree.
You deserve to get your property and parenting agreements sorted once and for all so you can finally, finally move on with your life and start rebuilding.
And you deserve to do all of this without spending more on lawyers than you'll actually receive in your settlement.
We're going to show you exactly how to make that happen. But first, there are a few things you need to know about how divorce and de facto separation actually works in Australia and why the system is expensive and keeps you confused, dependent.
What Our Members Are Saying...
Vee
I wish you could see my innermost heart. How thankful, grateful I am to both of you and how you both are lovingly helping us navigate this. Jan 2025
A.R
Going through this course module by module I have gained so much knowledge about my situation and feeling 100% more confident in what I have put together... best money I have ever spent. October 2021
Hannah
Y.E.S... you and your Ma are my fire brigade. Through the course and emails etc I feel supported and understand a lot more than I thought, thanks to your mission. Dec 2024
Maria
These two women helped us out immensely!!! We would never of known where to start or how to proceed and what to expect unless we stumbled across this. My daughter signed up to the course and pretty much handled the whole thing herself with only a step in step out approach with a lawyer at crucial stages… So appreciative!!!! Can’t thank them both enough for their expert guidance through a very dark season. Jan 2026
Julia
This has been hands down. The MOST helpful and supportive resource along my entire process. These amazing women are incredibly experienced and knowledgeable and offer practical actionable tips. 10/10 - Nov 2022
Two Paths Forward.
Which Will You Choose?
Path One: Continue feeling confused, overwhelmed, and helpless. Keep calling lawyers who charge hundreds per hour. Watch your settlement drain away in legal fees. Spend years stuck in limbo while your ex controls the timeline. Risk making expensive mistakes because you don't understand the process.
Path Two: Invest in yourself. Learn the legal system so you can make informed decisions. Take control of your case. Potentially save tens of thousands in legal fees. Get your property and parenting agreements sorted so you can finally move on with your life with confidence, clarity, and money still in your pocket.
The choice is yours.
The system isn't designed to be simple. But that doesn't mean you can't learn it. And once you do, you'll finally have the power to take control of your own future. - Lyn Galvin
This Is Your Roadmap Out
Hi, I'm Laura and this is my Mum, Lyn a Family Lawyer.
I created The Divorce Blueprint because I went through exactly what you're going through. I sat on that playroom floor. I cried in a lawyer's office while the meter was running. I spent thousands of dollars on legal fees when I didn't need to simply because I didn't know there was another way.
I had an advantage you might not have: I could call my Mum whenever I was confused, worried or scared. And I did. Constantly. I'd ring her and say, "Mum, what does this mean? What do I do next? Is this normal?"
And that's when it hit me: What do people do if they don't have a family lawyer for a Mother?
How do they figure out the legal process when they're overwhelmed, emotional, and exhausted? How do they avoid getting taken advantage of by a manipulative or avoidant or high conflict ex? How do they keep control of their case without handing over their entire financial settlement to lawyers?
They shouldn't have to figure it out alone. And now they don't have to.
The Divorce Blueprint is the course I desperately wish had existed when I was going through my divorce. It's everything Mum and I learned from my experience, from her 35 years in family law, and from helping hundreds of members just like you get through their divorce with clarity, confidence, thousands of dollars still in their pocket and their sanity intact.
Let's take a look at what's inside
Module 1: Preparing for the Worst But Hoping for the Best
This is your foundation. In this module, you'll learn the crucial first steps that set you up for success the things people who've been through divorce wish they'd known from day one.
You'll discover:
- How to identify your ex's divorce personality type (and why this changes your entire strategy)
- The first practical steps for preparing property settlementeven if you're still under the same roof
- Who should move out? The pros and cons nobody talks about
- What separation legally means and how to establish your date of separation
- Where to find support when you feel completely alone
Why this matters: The mistakes you make in week one can cost you thousands later. This module ensures you start on solid ground.
Module 2: Baby Steps to Your Future – The First Few Weeks
Those first few weeks are brutal. You're stressed, uncertain, and probably don't know what to do next. This module gives you a practical action plan so you're not just surviving… you're setting yourself up for success
You'll learn how to:
- Set up your new normal (even if you're still sharing a roof)
- Apply for child support—yes, even while living together
- Create a short-term routine that protects your peace
- Build your new self-care plan (because you can't pour from an empty cup)
Why this matters: You need stability before you can think clearly about long-term agreements. This module gives you that.
Module 3: Creating Your Long-Term Parenting Plan or Consent Orders
This is where you take control of the kids' future. Using our template and video guides, you'll create a parenting agreement that works for your family, not just a generic one-size-fits-all solution.
You'll learn:
- The basics of parenting law in Australia (explained in plain English)
- How to create your own parenting agreement using our proven template
- Negotiation strategies to get your co-parent to say YES
- How to file your application for consent orders in court so it's legally binding
Why this matters: A clear parenting plan removes uncertainty, reduces conflict, and gives your kids the stability they desperately need.
Module 4: Creating Your Proposed Property Orders
This is the big one. Property settlement feels impossible to figure out on your own, but it's not. This module breaks it down into manageable steps so you can calculate your entitlement and create professional property orders.
Following our comprehensive video guide, you'll:
- Understand how property settlement actually works in Australia
- Calculate contributions (financial AND non-financial)
- Determine future needs and how they affect your percentage
- Calculate what your potential property split could be
- Understand superannuation splitting
- Know when to see a lawyer for an accurate assessment
- Use our letter templates to negotiate your agreement
- File your consent orders in court
Why this matters: Property settlement is how you get your financial fresh start. Getting it right means you can finally close this chapter and move forward.
Module 5: Your Mediation Mindset
If you can't reach an agreement directly, mediation is your next step. This module prepares you so you walk in confident, organized, and ready to negotiate effectively.
You'll discover:
- What mediation actually is (and what to expect on the day)
- How to prepare for mediation so you're not caught off guard
- Negotiation techniques that work, even with difficult personalities
- What happens after mediation (whether it works or not)
Why this matters: Mediation can save you tens of thousands in legal fees—but only if you're prepared.
Module 5A: PreAction Procedures Before Court & Doing Disclosure
- How to prepare your disclosure properly
- Pre-action procedures to take b before court
Module 7: Avoiding the Court Rollercoaster
Court should always be your last resort. This module shows you every option available to settle outside of court and how to engage a lawyer strategically if you do need help.
You'll learn:
- Learn advanced negotiation strategies
- How to use our letter templates to keep negotiations moving
- What arbitration is and when to use it
- How to engage a lawyer strategically while keeping costs down
Why this matters: Court is expensive, slow, and unpredictable. This module gives you every tool to avoid it.
Module 7: When Glitch Happens
Life isn't perfect. Things change. This module prepares you for what to do if your ex breaks the orders, if you need to change the orders, or if unexpected bumps arise.
You'll be ready for:
- What to do if they break the orders
- How to apply for changes to orders when circumstances change
- Inevitable bumps in the road (and how to handle them)
Why this matters: Knowing how to handle problems keeps you calm and in control, no matter what happens.
Module 8: Untying the Knot
Getting officially divorced is the final legal step. This module walks you through doing your divorce paperwork yourself saving you money and stress.
You'll learn:
- A brief overview of divorce law in Australia
- How to fill in the divorce application forms (with video guidance)
- How to file your divorce application
- How to serve your ex with the divorce papers
- What happens on court day
- What to do after you're officially divorced
Why this matters: Getting your divorce certificate is the final piece that lets you fully move on with your life.
Module 9: Staying Safe & Domestic Violence
This module goes hand in hand with every other module to help you navigate each step safely.
You'll learn:
- Creating a safety plan
- How to navigate each step of the process if you are dealing with domestic violence so you can get through safely.
When you enrol in The Divorce Blueprint, you also receive:
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Weekly Live Member Q&A Sessions
Join us almost every week for live sessions where you can ask Lyn and other guest experts your pressing legal, psychological or financial questions. Get guidance, support, and clarity when you need it most. 6 months worth of sessions
Value: $1,440 ( 24 sessions × $60)
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Private Member Community
Connect with others who understand exactly what you're going through. Share resources, recommendations, and support. You're not alone in this.
Value: $500
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All Templates, Checklists & Letter Guides
Every legal template, checklist, and swipe file you need to create professional-quality documents
Value $3,500
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Online Video Lessons & Mobile App Access
Learn on your own schedule. Listen while walking the dog, or watch during your lunch break, or whenever you have a spare moment. Jump straight to the module you need.
Value $2,250
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Lifetime Access + All Future Updates
Access the online course materials forever. If we update the content with new laws or strategies, you get those updates at no additional cost.
Value $750
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Special Platinum Member Bonus
Two x 30 Minute Phone Consultations with Lyn
Get one on one time with a family lawyer who has 35 years of experience and who genuinely cares about your outcome. Ask the questions you wish you could ask a lawyer for free.
Value: $1500 for two calls
TOTAL COURSE VALUE: $9940
but the course will only cost you 👇
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Think about this:
Just one single hour with a lawyer costs $500-$1,000.
A full legal case can costs $50,000-$100,000 if you go to court or around $20,000+ on average if you stay out of court but use lawyers.
The Divorce Blueprint costs you less than 2hrs with a lawyer. And it gives you the knowledge so you can be in charge and handle your case from start to finish and stay out of court.
Please note: (we do always strongly suggest to see a lawyer at least twice once at the start and once before signing anything
Our Promise to You
We know this is a big decision. You're already stressed about money, and we respect that.
Here's what we promise: If you commit to working through this course if you watch the videos, use the templates, and apply what you learn you could save tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees with or without a lawyer.
You'll better understand the process. You'll know your rights. You'll be able to negotiate from a place of strength instead of fear.
And most importantly? You'll finally feel empowered instead of helpless.
This course won't make your ex suddenly reasonable. It won't erase the emotional pain of divorce. But it will give you clarity, confidence, and control over your legal journey which changes everything.
The Divorce Blueprint Is Perfect for You If...
✓ You've recently separated (possibly still under the same roof) and want to avoid spending thousands on the divorce process
✓ You've been separated for some time and are finally ready to officially finalise everything and move forward
✓ You're motivated to invest time in educating yourself so you can handle your divorce confidently
✓ You're actively researching lawyers but finding that even initial costs are overwhelming
✓ You have a lawyer but feel anxious about the process and want to stay informed and in control
✓ You feel confused or overwhelmed by legal procedures and what to do next and need clear, step-by-step guidance
✓ You recognise this course can give you the knowledge to complete your own proposed parenting and property agreements
✓ You're ready to follow structured lessons and guides to DIY the process with expert support along the way
✓ You don't want to go through this process alone.
If any of these resonate with you, The Divorce Blueprint was created specifically for you.
One Final Thought From Laura & Lyn
I remember that moment on the playroom floor so clearly. The helplessness. The fear of the unknown. The overwhelming uncertainty about what to do.
I also remember the moment that fear transformed into empowerment when I finally understood the process, knew my rights, and could see a clear path forward.
That transformation is what we're offering you today.
You've already taken the hardest step acknowledging you are separating. Now it's time to take the next step: learning how to navigate this process with confidence instead of confusion and in the process taking care of you and your future.
We created this course for you. Because you deserve to feel empowered. You deserve clarity. And you deserve to move forward without spending all the property and money you have on legal fees.
Join us. Let's do this together. Your guides by your side,
Enrolment Closes Wednesday, February 25th at midnight or sooner if member capacity is reached. So don't miss your spot.
I'm ready to take controlWhat Our Members Are Saying...
Catalina
I would like to thank you and your Mum. Without you I wouldn't have found the courage to take on the battle. Now I'm ready to ask for what the law can provide me with. - Jan 2026
Julie
Vikki
Thanks Laura, you and your mum have given me more information in the last week and a half than my solicitor in the last 6 months! Thanks so much. Hugs to you both - September 2025
Amanda
I love how you explain EVERYTHING in your course and never assume prior knowledge of the listener, and always give real-life examples. Your combination of skills family law and teaching go so perfectly together in your course. - August 2025
Rebecca
Since doing the course I feel good and ready for action. Before I was totally overwhelmed but now I have a “I can do this attitude”. It has totally saved on lawyers fees because It has helped me minimise the need to book appointments with my lawyer as I feel much more equipped with the knowledge I need. Thanks so much for your help and knowledge. I have recommended this course to so many people - 2022
Meg
Lyn and Laura host the Q+A sessions with sincerity, knowledge, experience and empathy. This in itself is a comfort in a situation where your narrative is reduced to number crunching and where it is often best to leave emotion and disappointment out. Having the opportunity to informally ask for an immediate reflection on your pressing concern, in the presence of others also sharing their divorce realities, is invaluable. These sessions are the perfect companion to progressing through your self-education or for clarification before, between or after your own legal engagements. I often benefit from other members' relevant questions, as much as my own. You could not wish for a better situation, an hour to have a cup of tea and engage with an experienced lawyer in the evening or early morning knowing you can look forward to the next opportunity. Q+A with these two gorgeous women is a welcome resource and support in navigating this solo journey. This testimonial is written in honesty and with gratitude. Sept 2023
Maria
After signing up to the course I can confidently say that I feel more empowered and in control of my situation.It was an amazing feeling that I was not alone and somebody was looking after me. Your course helps me to understand my rights before my lawyer tells me. Now my questions are more direct and my lawyer doesn’t need to explain the basics to me (saving me money). I couldn’t have gone through last year without you. Every single module is full of practical strategies that have helped me understand my rights, identify my ex’s behaviour and learn how to protect myself. March 2023
Frequently Asked Questions
"This is a big investment. Shouldn't I save this money for a lawyer?"
"Legal jargon is overwhelming. Will I really be able to do this myself?"
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"I've been separated for a long time. Is this course still for me?"
"My ex is difficult—can I still use this course?"
"What if I start but get overwhelmed?"
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